June 27, 2017 10:30 pm

We received some very sobering news today from our medical team. The purpose of this blog is to keep everyone up to date on what is happening, so we will share the news here in an unedited manner with all of you, but also with apologies for causing any heartache.

In short, we were informed that the Josh that we knew and loved won't be coming back. That there are no "happy endings" in this situation and all possible outcomes are "terrible." His brain damage is very serious.

This shocking news was delivered in a loving way by an experienced and caring health care professional, but the shock to us was substantial. It certainly narrowed the range of possible outcomes in a devastating way. An official meeting has been set for 2:00 pm tomorrow with the entire medical team to discuss the situation in more detail, so we will almost certainly have more information after that. Honestly, we are both dreading the meeting.

Josh ended the day in the same way he started -- heavily sedated with no major changes. We are expecting some information from the EEG at some point tomorrow regarding the possible seizure issue.

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  1. Julie DainesJune 28, 2017 at 1:17 AM

    My heart is aching for you all. This is terrible news and I can't imagine your heartache. All our love and prayers are with you.

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